Our two week long travel continued as our entire family headed to Lubbock on Saturday, December 28th. Our flight wasn’t until 11:30 am but out of Detroit so we all woke early to get everything ready, packed and in the car. We made it to DTW with plenty of time as our first flight of the two was delayed. The first flight was smooth but we made a grave error changing our connecting flight to Lubbock as we thought we would be missing it but it also was delayed so we had over two hours in the Dallas airport. We got some Mexican food at a sports bar and stretched our legs a bit before finally boarding our second short flight to Lubbock. Once in Lubbock it took no time to get our bags, our rental minivan, install the car seats, and hardly 10 minutes later were at our Airbnb only about a mile from my Grandad’s house.





The Airbnb was perfect for our family. We had four bedrooms and the girl’s room was fun for them with a trundle bed and our bed was fun for them as it had a vibrating and other adjustment remote control. The backyard was very large and we later learned very sunny during the day which was glorious to sit down at and the garage had two screens to watch games plus a pool table, air hockey table and darts. Reese immediately hit the air hockey table and proceeded to challenge everyone in the family multiple times throughout the next two days. Mom and I walked to get some basic groceries for our stay and Chad unfortunately didn’t get on his connecting flight until the next day and had to stay at the airport hotel in Dallas for Saturday night.
Sunday we woke up to 70 degree weather and sunshine and my body was initially not ready for it but very quickly soaked it all up. After breakfast and some air hockey we set out for the nearby Higinbotham Park that I remember going to as a kid on our visits. The girls played at the playground with Grandad while Mom picked up Chad from the airport and Bryan and I ran 3 miles around on the path. We found giant acorns to through into the pond and soon after Chad and Mom joined us at the park. We got a massive BBQ feast to have at the house for a late lunch and everything was so good! After lunch we had a visit from my uncle and nephew for a few hours and Brooke and Bryan took a nap. We then set out for a walk around Texas Tech’s campus, with Dad showing us various stomping grounds and checking out the new stadiums. Reese got a piggy back ride from me and then Chad. Right as we were leaving campus all of the Christmas lights came on and that was pretty special. We had had such a large lunch most of us weren’t hungry and with Brooke’s good nap we decided to go to the nearby Alamo Drafthouse to watch the new Moana 2 movie. This was Brooke’s first movie on the big screen ever and she did great and enjoyed it. We got some snacks and drinks and it was a very fun experience.




Monday was the whole reason we were all in Lubbock in the first place; to say a bittersweet goodbye to my grandad. We were up and getting ready to get to the funeral home in Lubbock by 10 am for the family’s visitation. This was my first time seeing him and it was certainly bittersweet. Grandad looked great and just as I remembered him. This was also the girls first time seeing a body as my Grandpa had not had an open casket. We stayed through visitation until noon, Bryan taking the girls out on walks as this was a long time for them to remain seated or talking to people they’ve never met. At noon we left the funeral home and headed to Sunset Church for a luncheon. The meal was great and it was nice to be able to talk a bit more with some of the friends and family that had come out for the day. After lunch we set out for the gravesite service at the Wilson Cemetery where we had also attended for my Grandmom 12 years ago. It was a windy but warm day but quite comfortable in the tent they had set up for us. My dad’s 2nd cousin, Clint, did the service and my dad did a great job following up with his own memories and summary of his dad and the life he lived. It was a beautiful service.
Following the service we drove back home so that we could all change and rest for a bit. We knew we were short on daylight so we all went for walks, some back to Higinbotham and for a visit of my Grandad’s house and us to the closes Rush Elementary for some time playing on their playground. Both of our girls by this point in the trip were tired, without their normal routine, and just generally difficult people. We had thought to go out for dinner to watch the Lion’s MNF game but Brooke especially was very cranky so we opted to get take out once more and this was a good decision. We had a delicious dinner from a restaurant called Walk In, owned by Drew Brees, and we were able to watch the Lions win a big game and get the girls in bed at an earlier hour ahead of our very early morning flight back to Seattle the next day.


NYE started about as early as it could for us. Our first flight to Dallas was scheduled for 6 am Central Time and was right on time. This meant that we were leaving the Airbnb at 2:30 PST but the girls knew they had the donuts they had picked out the previous day and they were helpful in getting out the door. We said our goodbyes and mom was gracious enough to drop us off at the airport. We had about 90 minutes in between flights in Dallas which meant we had plenty of time to get all of the way across the airport, get some food, walk around the terminal a bit before getting on the 4.5 hour flight to Seattle. All of us napped at some point on this flight and arrived in Seattle in mostly good condition. We retrieved our bags, walked to the light rail and then got on the bus and were home just before 1 pm PST.

The girls wanted to go to the kid friendly New Year’s Eve party at our friend’s Luis and Carina’s house and my one condition was that they would have to sleep on the plane which they did. We were able to pick up groceries, make a side and get in a shower before we were heading north to the party just before 5. We rallied with friends, fueled with food and drink, perked up with games for adults and kids and a glow stick dance party, before counting down for East Coast’s midnight. There was again confetti canyons and a balloon drop at midnight, we sang the NYE song and then very quickly packed up and headed back home with both girls falling asleep in the car and Bryan and I falling asleep not much after.




Our 2024 holiday and end of year was all of the things. It was a time with a lot of family and visits with old friends. It was the end of a career and the start of a couple’s joint retirement. It was a splash at an indoor water park. It was filled with a lot of games, cards, and good eats. It was the closing of a special person’s life and the remembrance of them as a person, dad, and grandad. And it was a travel cross country to get back to our house and to kick off a new year with friends of all ages. Hoping for good things to come in the year 2025.
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Chelsea












































































































































































































































































































